I hope he can do it. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as were many of my peers.
But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. And a happy ChristmaChannuKwanzaKah to everyone. All the other stuffв is crap. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him.
He was devastatedcalled me every night crying telling me to please go back. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough. I pray the holy Spirit will provide guidance to both of us, and that love conquers all. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. In order for him to survive his residency much less thrive in itthe hospital has to come first, he has to come second, and I come in at third place. Whether you like it or not, you are both married to medicine.
There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. I deal better with inattention when he is home better than him as well. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc.